Posted on Oct 02, 2023

Best First Date Venues Birmingham

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Best First Date Venues Birmingham

You have both swiped right on your dating app and the conversation is going well. Hopefully, at some point, someone will take the plunge and ask the other one out on a date #exciting!

If they say yes, you are now on stage 2, where do you go? Should it be fancy and expensive, or should it be relaxed and chilled, is the place you choose a reflection of your personality? Will they approve  So many questions and so little time. 

First dates can be tricky, you don't really know each other and don't want awkward silences or nothing to talk about until the nerves settle. 

Worry not, we have you covered. We get lots of first dates at The Floodgate and the reason for this is an activity is perfect for a first date. it gives you something else to focus on, it's a conversation starter and ice breaker and generally provides a good laugh when someone scores a point or makes a mistake. it's the perfect starter before grabbing some dinner and drinks. 

 

Here are some of the best first-date venues in Birmingham:

  • The Floodgate - Fantastic gaming venue in the heart of Digbeth perfect for couples. Offering up Baseball, Curling, Crazy Golf, and Car Racing there is something for everyone. It has a 4.5-star rating on Google Maps.
  • The Lost & Found Birmingham: Classic British food, plus sandwiches and cocktails, in quirky rooms in a grand Victorian building. It has a 4.2 star rating on Google Maps.
  • Tonight Josephine Birmingham: A stylish cocktail bar with a speakeasy vibe. It has a 4.8 star rating on Google Maps.
  • The Button Factory: A renovated Victorian factory now housing a contemporary venue featuring coffees and robata grills. It has a 4.1 star rating on Google Maps.
  • Be At One - Brindley Place Birmingham: A lively chain bar that serves sweet, sour and spicy cocktails, and offers mixing masterclasses. It has a 4.7 star rating on Google Maps.
  • Cosy Club: A stylish bar and restaurant with a relaxed atmosphere. It has a 4.3 star rating on Google Maps.

I hope this helps you plan a great first date!

 

Here are 10 first-date tips to help you make a good impression and have a more enjoyable time:

  1. Choose the right first date spot. Pick a place that is casual and low-pressure, where you can easily talk and get to know each other. Avoid loud or crowded places, or places where you'll be distracted by other activities.
  2. Be on time. Being on time is a sign of respect for your date. If you're running late, be sure to text or call them to let them know.
  3. Dress for the occasion. You don't need to go overboard, but you should put some effort into your appearance. Dress in clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable.
  4. Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you're not, because your date will be able to tell. Just be yourself and let your personality shine through.
  5. Be a good listener. Ask questions about your date's interests and really listen to their answers. Show that you're interested in getting to know them.
  6. Be positive and upbeat. No one wants to be around someone who is negative or complaining. Try to stay positive and upbeat throughout the date.
  7. Avoid certain topics. There are certain topics that are best to avoid on a first date, such as politics, religion, and ex-partners. It's also best to avoid talking about yourself too much.
  8. Offer to pay. Traditionally, the person who asks for the date is responsible for paying. However, it's always a nice gesture to offer to split the bill.
  9. End the date on a good note. Even if you're not interested in seeing your date again, it's important to end the date on a good note. Thank them for their time and let them know you had a nice time.
  10. Don't feel pressured to kiss. If you're not feeling it, don't feel pressured to kiss your date at the end of the night. It's perfectly okay to just say goodbye and hug them.

 

Here are some additional tips:

 

  • Be mindful of your body language. Make eye contact, smile, and lean in slightly when your date is speaking.
  • Be respectful of your date's boundaries. Don't touch them without their permission, and don't make any sexual advances.
  • If you're not interested in seeing your date again, be honest with them. Don't lead them on.

 

Most importantly, relax and have fun! First dates can be nerve-wracking, but they're also a great opportunity to meet new people and learn more about yourself.

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